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Living Simply

June 9, 2008

I find that I really need to live simply. Too many commitments…too many relationships…too much complication…contributes to my life being unmanageable.

I think of the recovery phrase: KISS

Keep
It
Simple
Silly (I prefer “simple” to “stupid”.)

I need to remember that. I cannot schedule too many things in one day…or things on too many days in a row. Of course, with gas prices so high, it is not like I can go out many days anyway!

I need to know my limits and live within them. That is part of good self care. Yet, on the other hand, I also need to not run from being stretched. It is in being stretched that I can grow.

Sometimes, being stretched means being confronted by things about myself that I need to face. In facing those things, and in owning what is mine to own, I grow. Each time I can acknowledge my own weaknesses and foibles and work with them and through them, I grow.

Sometimes growth is also not allowing others to put things on me that are not mine to own. That, too, is a sign of growth.

Growth can be very hard. Yet, on some levels, it can be fun, too. As I face challenges and see how my responses to them are changing…how I am actually working through them…I can have a sense of victory in my life.

It feels good to see myself responding to things differently than I used to. Even when I am still not doing it the best, I am at least moving in the right direction. And that feels good!

Healing is a process. There are times when it is an event…but mostly it is a process. I like another phrase…progress, not perfection. I will continue to be a very imperfect person, but at least I am making progress!

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